Who Is Usman's Girlfriend Kim On 90 Day Fiance?

When Season 5 of "90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days" hit the airwaves, one new couple sported a familiar face in Usman Umar. Usman, who goes by his stage name SojaBoy, was once married briefly to Lisa Hamme, aka "Baby Girl Lisa." With an age gap of 23 years, Lisa being 53 when she met him, and on-air controversies, their marriage quickly went south, according to Screen Rant. The couple split soon after their nuptials. Lisa moved on swiftly and married again in April 2021, calling her new husband her "best friend."

Usman, however, is still on the quest for love — and he still seems to have a thing for American women in their 50s. TLC posted a clip of the couple to its "90 Day Fiance" YouTube channel, and it looks like all the feels are coming from his new girlfriend, Kim Menzies. As for Usman ... not so much. After she brought him a brand-new PS5 and a MacBook Pro, the Nigerian-born suitor still called her a "potential," saying her gifts were "almost" worthy of girlfriend status. Kim was sad, especially since Usman paid more attention to the gifts than to her. "I am sincerely hoping by the end of this trip, I get as much action as those damn gifts did," she said.

So who exactly is Kim, and what's her story?

While Usman Umar started out calling Kim Menzies a "potential" girlfriend, it seems that he is ready to move past the "potential" stage. In a newer clip — much to the dismay of his friends and business colleagues — Usman publicly acknowledged Kim's presence during her stay in Nigeria. But fans of the franchise want to know more about this mystery woman who slipped into the Nigerian rapper's DMs and ended up as a love interest on the new season of "90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days."

Kim Menzies hails from California and has one daughter and one son, whom she seems to adore, based on her Instagram account. While there isn't a lot of information about the sort of jobs Kim has had over her life, she is an Army vet who served in Desert Storm, according to Gossip Next Door. 

Her LinkedIn profile says that Kim currently works as a service manager at Mimi's Cafe in San Diego, California, but between her military service and her current job, there isn't much to tell about her employment history.  

One thing is very clear from Kim Menzies' obvious fangirl attitude toward Usman, and that's the fact that she is certainly hoping to get Usman to see her as more than just a "potential" girlfriend. 

It remains to be seen whether Usman Umar and Kim Menzies will make their relationship Instagram official. There are some hints that they may be in more of a platonic friendship than a romantic relationship. According to Screen Rant, an Instagram-savvy fan of "90 Day Fiance," @mommysaysbadwordslive, found a since-deleted meme on one of Usman's active Instagram accounts. While the original post is now nowhere to be found, Usman may have let it slip that he views Kim as more of a sister than a potential life partner. In the meme, you can see two different pictures of Kim, who is obviously flaunting SojaBoy fan clothing. Usman posted the pic with the comment, "Regardless of anything, she is my super fan. Thank you, sis" followed by a heart and praying hands emoji set.

In the world of Instagram slip-ups, this would have to be up there with the biggest of them. They're not even a month into their season of "90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days," and Usman's already making it painfully clear that Kim will never be the fiance, let alone wife, that she was hoping to be. At least, not for him.