Inside Patti Stanger's Life Today
Have you ever had tons of money, but had trouble finding love? Since 2000, Patti Stanger has been running her own matchmaker company, Millionaire's Club. She then took this premise, alongside her credentials as a relationship connector, to the small screen and became a star in the process. In 2008, "The Millionaire Matchmaker" premiered on Bravo, and throughout eight seasons, Stanger played the role of cupid for only extremely wealthy and single individuals. She quickly gained popularity for her brutal honesty when coaching her clients — but all in the name of potential love.
The TV show went off the air in 2015, but Stanger didn't slow down one bit, dipping her toes into other money-making ventures. But viewers may want to follow Stanger's "do as I say, not as I do" advice, since she's admittedly experienced her own difficulty in the romance department. Come one, come all, you single fish out there in the sea (and those in a relationship, too). We present to you a look inside Patti Stanger's life today.
Moving within the big world of TV
When "The Millionaire Matchmaker" went off the air, it appeared that Patti Stanger's days on TV may have come to an end. At the time, rumors swirled that Bravo fired her following a salary dispute. However, in a 2016 interview on "The Wendy Williams Show," Stanger revealed that this wasn't the case. Instead, she explained how she and Marc Juris — the president of WE tv — had met and hit it off years prior at PaleyFest. "He had come to my agent and he's like, 'If she ever leaves Bravo, I want her,'" she told the titular host. "And I said, 'I want to do something different with the show ... and I want to help, not just America, [but] the world, in love.'"
This eventually led to Stanger joining the WE tv network and kicking off her "Million Dollar Matchmaker" show in 2016. While discussing her second TV series with KTLA 5 Morning News the following year, Stanger said, "The secret sauce of this season is ... that I put you in the hot seat and I give you the healing and I figure out why are you doing what you do [in relationships], so we break your bad patterns."
Patti Stanger lost money while surrounded by millionaires
Patti Stanger traveled around California to help her high-end clientele while filming both "The Millionaire Matchmaker" and "Million Dollar Matchmaker." Unfortunately, she found herself dealing with a scary situation while taping in Los Angeles. In May 2019, The Blast obtained legal documents that revealed Stanger's lawsuit against the Luxe Sunset Boulevard Hotel, which stemmed from a 2017 robbery. The reality TV star reportedly booked three rooms at the hotel, one for relaxing, another for wardrobe plus makeup, and a third for all of her personal keepsakes — but claimed that robbers carried out a complex scheme and stole at least ten suitcases worth of belongings from this third room. At the time, TMZ reported that $300,000 worth of items had been stolen.
Stanger, who was seeking unspecified damages, alleged that the hotel falsely assured her about security cameras focused on her rooms, claiming that these were merely "decoys" used to "discourage staff from theft." The LAPD eventually dropped the case, despite having caught the suspected thief, because the hotel reportedly didn't obtain necessary evidence.
In a statement to Page Six, Stanger's lawyer said the incident was a dose of cruel reality for the reality star. The attorney continued, "[Stanger] hopes this case will raise awareness to the fact that many of the luxury hotels we think are so well protected and safe ... are often prime targets for large scale theft rings."
She's gained popularity abroad for a surprising reason
With two popular reality TV series set in California, it's no secret why Patti Stanger is so well-known in the United States. What is surprising, however, is her appeal and recognition to fans halfway across the world. In an article written for USA Today in 2018, author and fellow matchmaker Paul C. Brunson shared a personal story about discovering Stanger's shockingly huge following in China after meeting two Chinese businesswomen while enjoying a social dinner in Istanbul.
Despite the fact that the on-and-off screen matchmaker's TV series never aired in China, she was still building momentum for her business, as evidenced by the fact that she was more recognizable to Brunson's acquaintances than the likes of Oprah Winfrey. "My two new friends told me many of her quotes and video clips have gone viral on WeChat, the most popular social network in China," he wrote. "They then dropped the literal million-dollar nugget, 'and we love how real she is.'"
Patti Stanger's sparkling side work
It seems only natural that Patti Stanger would have additional pursuits outside of reality TV, particularly given her entrepreneurial skills in running a successful matchmaking business. According to her Millionaire's Club website, the businesswoman has boasted several sister brands and side companies, including a fashion line called Je T'aime — that's "I love you" in French, because does anything say romance and love more than France? The brand has featured just about everything, including custom-made jewelry and clothing with not-so-inspirational quotes like, "With Tequila You Get Babies." Rounding out the collection were a signature fragrance, makeup, and handbags.
Stanger has also been involved with the company, Attracting a Soulmate, with which she's produced audio recordings with purposeful subliminal messages. Teaming up with clinical hypnotherapist Steve G. Jones after studying quantum physics herself, the two have promoted the premise that people unconsciously hold onto negative thoughts, which ultimately lead to missed romantic opportunities. For those inclined, Stanger's voice and music recordings have attempted to guide the listener in changing their mindset and find a soulmate through the science of attraction.
It all goes back to matchmaking
Patti Stanger got her start in the dating business as head of marketing for Great Expectations, America's oldest dating service. In 2000, she started her own matchmaking service, the aforementioned Millionaire's Club. The goal was to match high-profile male clients with prospective romantic mates in a discreet manner. Of course, then came TV's own "The Millionaire Matchmaker," which is just about the opposite of discreet dating. But even after securing her place on reality television, Stanger continued to run her matchmaking company off screen.
The Millionaire Dating Club boasts a 99% success rate. For $85,000 a year, you could join the club's gold package, which has featured a personal coaching session with Stanger. For those not in the financial elite, our modern-day cupid has offered Patti Knows. Containing articles and dating advice from a series of writers, Stanger has also posted her own blog entries on the company's website. However, as of this writing, she hasn't posted since 2015. Perhaps there is just too much potential romance in the air to allow for free writing time.
Patti Stanger's professional gambling ... on relationships
If your entire career is built around matchmaking and relationship advice, it should come as no surprise that people may consider you an expert on these topics. For Patti Stanger, this has meant talking about something we all know and love here at Nicki Swift: celebrity couples. She is often asked to comment on the latest celeb dating and romance news, sometimes about people she's never even met. In a since-deleted feature for The Nest, Stanger gave her predictions on the chances of survival for then-recently-engaged celebrity couples like Prince William and Kate Middleton (a 51% chance is the answer she gave). While speaking with Us Weekly, Stanger even claimed she successfully predicted a few celeb engagements, including the ill-fated romance between Lady Gaga and Taylor Kinney.
When Amazon founder Jeff Bezos shocked the world with news of his January 2019 divorce from longtime wife MacKenzie, Stanger was of course on hand to share her thoughts on the richest man in the world's dating life. "He's going to take his time to get the next marriage going," she claimed to Page Six, revealing that while she had no doubts the driven mogul would attract potential mates, the trick would be to find people searching for the man and not the money. Stanger added, "But he might play the field a bit."
Life away from the TV cameras
To share her snappy comebacks and tough-love relationship advice live, Patti Stanger decided to take her act on the road in February 2019. The Patti Stanger Live! tour saw the matchmaker help audience members navigate the tricky waters of modern dating. She also brought attendees up on stage to improve their dating profiles, and empowered women to take control in the dating world.
In addition to giving in-person dating wisdom to singles and couples, Page Six reports that Stanger sweetened the live tour deal through her clothing and jewelry line, Je T'aime. According to the media outlet, she planned to give away an engagement ring to any couple that proposed during a live session.
The former Bravo star also stayed in her comfort zone throughout 2019 by appearing on several talk shows to give her unique perspective on relationships, including "The Real" and "Girls Want to Know." A common thread among these segments? The hosts and crew lining up to ask Stanger to set them up with their perfect match.
Is Patti Stanger a matchmaker without a match?
Love unfortunately hasn't come easily for this dating expert. A year after Patti Stanger split from her longterm boyfriend, David Krause, in 2015, she revealed on "The Wendy Williams Show," "Now I'm ready to get married, and I'm ready to find the one." Part of the reason the matchmaker was still single, she admitted, was her "picky" dating preferences: "I like hot surfer dudes, maybe with a job."
By 2018, Stanger told Steve Harvey on his eponymous show that she was single, but was using popular dating apps, including Bumble and Tinder. However, her thoughts on said apps seem to be mixed. Though she's used them herself and even met her ex on Plenty of Fish, Stanger previously quipped on KTLA 5 Morning News that, in her opinion, the pictures men tend to use (and sometimes send) on these dating apps are "hideous" and "TMI." At the time, Stanger was still waiting to receive an invitation to the exclusive dating app Raya, and later got kicked off OkCupid in October 2019.
Looking back at Patti Stanger's family history
It turns out that Patti Stanger didn't just wake up one day and decide to play cupid for the rich and famous. Rather, it was all in the family. Stanger is actually a third-generation matchmaker, following the lead of her mom and grandmother. "My grandmother would say there is a lid for every pot," the reality star told Parade. She previously revealed on KTLA 5 Morning News that her mother's line was, "One and done, all you need is one."
Of course, this means Stanger had two experts to turn to for advice, and revealed to Shape the best piece of dating wisdom she ever received from her mom: "Nothing good happens after 11 o'clock at night ... Once you get his number, get the hell out and be a mystery. Make him want you more." And while Stanger is admittedly a sentimental person who grieves the end of a relationship, she revealed on "The Wendy Williams Show" that her mother approved of "monkey barring" (as Williams put it), meaning she wouldn't waste time waiting to date again following a breakup.
As for where Stanger, who was adopted as a child, claimed to get her "clairaudient" gift? She told Us Weekly that her biological grandmother "was a Cherokee and very into shamanism." Claiming she can "sense energy" in other people, Stanger revealed that she's honed this into her dating advice and matchmaking skills.
She's jumped from reality TV to acting
Patti Stanger made her on-screen debut back in 2002 while representing the Millionaire's Club on "The Anna Nicole Show." From then on, she typically appeared as herself on various reality TV series and interviews — with a couple grand exceptions.
In addition to making her acting debut in a 2011 episode of "Drop Dead Diva," Stanger played a reporter in the 2016 made-for-TV movie "Sharknado 4: The 4th Awakens." She was part of a long list of celebrity cameos in the Syfy channel flick. (Consider us still reeling from the Emmy snub of this fine TV-movie classic.)
Stanger has also taken her multi-talents to the stage. Alongside Jeff Lewis of Bravo's "Flipping Out," she's performed shows at comedy clubs on the West Coast. In a promo video for an October 2019 show posted on Stanger's Instagram account, the pair advertised their return to Orange County's Brea Improv Comedy Club. In addition to answering live audience questions, the show featured "funny stories that have never been told" and Bravo trivia — not surprising, given their experience on the network.
The business of love has been good Patti Stanger's pocketbook
It's clear by now that Patti Stanger has been expanding into multiple money-making ventures since starting her Millionaire's Club business back in 2000. In addition to her company getting international exposure on "The Millionaire Matchmaker" and "Million Dollar Matchmaker" TV series, Stanger grew her empire to include a fashion and jewelry line, audio programs, live tours, books, a radio show, and talk-show appearances. Suffice it to say, the love industry has been rather lucrative for Stanger.
With all that money in the bank, you might be surprised to hear that Stanger seems to have invested a lot in herself. In addition to boasting a gorgeous, spacious home and literally hundreds of pairs of designer shoes, she revealed in an interview with Shape that health and appearance are important factors in her life. After getting into the world of spinning, Stanger began taking classes at the high-end gym chain Equinox. In another interview with the media outlet, she shared that she was always into a good dance class when it came to her exercise routine, including Zumba and the pole-dancing workout S Factor. It sounds like Stanger has been living her best life.
Patti Stanger made lifestyle changes
Patti Stanger of course knows that self-confidence is a key component to many romantic relationships. When it came to her personal well-being, the dating guru began experimenting with different self-improvement methods. For example, she explained that meditating helped bring calmness to her hectic schedule. "I do transcendental meditation, which I fell in love with. It took about two years because I'd always been metaphysical, but I didn't have time to travel," Stanger told LA Style Magazine. This practice also aided in a few physical issues because as she revealed, "I suffered from cluster headaches and Hashimoto's disease. On top of that, most people my age are in menopause."
In addition to mediating, she was also medicating. "I'm gonna tell you the truth. I went on semaglutide, which is the ingredient in Ozempic," Stanger explained on the "Behind the Velvet Rope" podcast about the drug typically used for people with type 2 diabetes or obesity. She stopped taking semaglutide after a few weeks due to unfavorable side effects and switched to Mounjaro, another drug typically used to treat diabetes. "My doctor recommended it ... I'm not diabetic, but I do take a sugar pill twice a day to keep my sugar down," Stanger explained. The matchmaker also is careful about what she eats but doesn't obsess over her diet. "I feel like eating bread one day, then I'm going to eat bread," she told People.
She coauthored a supernatural romance novel
Patti Stanger's first book in 2009 was an extension of her dating experience called "Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate." As she grew older, Stanger felt there was little information about hormones in men and women in mid-life ages. "No one really knows how to understand this, even your emotional point of view doesn't know, and that's something I want to share in my next book," she told LA Style Magazine.
While spending more time at home during the COVID-19 pandemic, Stanger revealed she became obsessed with watching the TV series "Supernatural." This love for mystery and witchcraft combined with her knowledge of relationships inspired Stanger to reach out to her friend, novelist Rachel Van Dyken. The reality star proposed the two work on a romance book featuring witchcraft and supernatural elements, Stanger explained on "Behind the Velvet Rope" podcast. The end result was the co-authored book between the two titled "Compel," which debuted in January of 2023. A few months later, she posed with the book for an Instagram post and wrote, "My new book Compel with New York Times best selling author, Rachel Van Dyken is absolutely spellbinding."
"It's just book one, there will be a series. We hope to sell it to the screen," Stanger revealed about her novel on "Behind the Velvet Rope." Even more, she also helped Van Dyken bring her series "The Dark Ones" to screen.
She's found love again
As the leader of her matchmaking service Millionaires Club, Patti Stanger has unfortunately never found the everlasting success of a relationship like some of her clients. After splitting up with her boyfriend David Krause in 2015, Stanger was back on the hunt. Ironically, it was the free dating app Tinder that helped Stanger find a romantic connection. Stanger explained on the "Behind the Velvet Rope" podcast that she hopes to offer her own dating app one day and as research, she started using popular apps like Bumble and Tinder. She saw a guy with a familiar first name who had a cute photo of feeding a kangaroo, and she was hooked.
According to Stanger, she also credited working with a manifestation coach to believe that she would find love, no matter what age. "David just showed up when I was about to get off the app," Stanger shared alongside a selfie post on Instagram with her man in 2023. According to the matchmaker, one of the acts that solidified the relationship was when both were sick with COVID-19 and he took care of her. "He had no symptoms and I was flat Lined! That's when you know love is real! I wish everyone the same true love and know love can happen in a second," she added on the post.
Patti Stanger's comments once landed her in trouble
One of the reasons Patti Stanger was such an entertaining reality personality is her quick talking and often unfiltered comments, especially when it comes to giving hard relationship advice to her clients. While some appreciate her brutal honesty, her comments can also create controversy. As the guest on a 2011 episode of "Watch What Happens Live" with Andy Cohen, a gay caller phoned in asking for long distance relationship advice and her thoughts on monogamy. "There is no curbing the gay man," she said, via The Hollywood Reporter. "I have tried to curb 'you people,'" she then said to Cohen, who is also gay. At another point in the episode, she declared, "Jewish men lie."
Numerous Twitter users and a writer for Jewish Journal publicly denounced Stanger's remarks and called for Bravo to cancel her TV show. As a result, the network released a statement distancing itself from the reality star. "Bravo regrets the comments expressed by Patti Stanger on 'Watch What Happens Live' last night. Her comments are not representative of the network's beliefs and opinions. We apologize for the offense it caused," a Bravo spokesperson told The Hollywood Reporter. Stanger apologized on Twitter for her comments.
In 2022, she appeared to be back in a positive light as Stanger thanked Jewish Journal and Bravo on Instagram. "Thx @jewishjournal @bravotv for including me as one of the top ten #Jewish reality stars. I'm very proud of my heritage especially in a time of antisemitism," she wrote.
Patti Stanger aspired for a different career
Patti Stanger grew up in New Jersey but relocated to warmer weather in Florida for higher education. She attended the University of Miami and though she came from a family of matchmakers, she had a different career in mind. "That was my dream, to be a screenwriter," she told The Miami Hurricane. As Stanger explained, that was the reason for her big move from New Jersey to Miami. "[It was] the only good school in the country that had a really good communications film department, other than NYU and USC," she explained. The move was the correct call because as Stanger recalled of her time in university, "I learned so much there to be honest with you."
She was also grateful for the extracurricular activities, like having South Beach right nearby. While she studied film, Stanger unsurprisingly used her gift in matchmaking for her fellow undergrads. Stanger also recalled her time in the library, more for memories of making out with guys instead of studying. "The best guys are in the law library by the way, not the med school, because med students have no time, but that's the best kept secret," she said.
Later in her career, Stanger left behind reality television to become a producer. "I ended up doing four movies for Hallmark and learning how to produce scripted because I went to film school and I really wanted to do that," she said on the "Behind the Velvet Rope" podcast.
The craziest dates she's ever seen
While some people may wait for years to find a special someone to go on a perfect date with, this is a regular occurrence for Patti Stanger, at least from her role as matchmaker. Starting in the industry of love connections from an early age, she has heard of some wild first dates. Even more, many of her clients are ultra-wealthy, meaning these dates are truly one of a kind. For example, she has set up a couple who went on a date to the famous Kentucky Derby horse race. Stanger also helped facilitate couples on exotic trips, like a couple who spent two weeks together in Fiji as a date instead of a honeymoon. Given the influence of some of her high profile clients, Stanger has seen couples go on dates to Grammys, the Oscars, and even a party with royals Prince William and Kate Middleton in attendance. Almost all of these, plus even more unbelievable and extravagant dates, are "Princess Diaries dates," Stanger told Business Insider.
As for Stanger, her dream date is less about where than who. According to the matchmaker, she wants nothing more than to go on a date with Irish actor Liam Neeson. "He's hot. We're both Geminis, so I like that," she told People. "I love men from Ireland ... He's adorable," she added. If Neeson is not available, Stanger said she wouldn't mind settling on a date with Keanu Reeves or Google cofounder Serge Brin.
Patti Stanger's thoughts on dating through the pandemic
While Patti Stanger's methods of connecting people may seem old school by setting up and coaching clients, her methods clearly worked enough to land her own TV show about her services. Yet, Stanger also understood how the COVID-19 pandemic upended many traditional practices, especially when it came to dating. As a result, virtual connections grew because as Stanger said in Authority Magazine, "nobody has anything to do so it is not bad to either date online or make friends online." The matchmaker also admitted that the pandemic was difficult for people without love.
"It's definitely a rough time for singles who are quarantined alone. Loneliness hit me hard the other night. I am single," Stanger explained. According to her, the best thing to do was to focus on hobbies or other interests. "It is a time to slow down, meditate, cook, and garden," she said. Additionally, she explained that even if virtual, the pandemic forced more interactions or as she called it, true connections.
Thanks to an increased online presence for many during the pandemic, it was also a great time for Stanger's line of business. "Everybody's going online. They're using matchmakers more than ever. That's a great way to meet someone," the matchmaker told Molly Sims. Without any quarantines or restrictions, Stanger follows her mom's advice: "My mother used to say, you have to have a dating account for travel, clothes and for doing things that are interesting."
Patti Stanger the entrepreneur
When she's not playing cupid between hopeful romantics, Patti Stanger keeps busy with side projects in a wide variety of industries. For example, she launched a jewelry line called Je t”aime, that is, "I love you" in French. Her dad was a jeweler so she said it had been a long time dream to create her own designs. "My first job was working for him and I never stopped Gem dreaming," she told Bravo.
In the hospitality industry, Stanger became a co-owner of TYKU Sake & Spirits, a brand that markets traditional Japanese rice wine as a clear and less acidic alternative to traditional wine from grapes. According to the matchmaker, she discovered the brand as a connoisseur of sake, especially since it perfectly fit into her diet. "The TY KU Sake portfolio is low calorie, gluten-free, sulfite free and tannin free, so it fits my healthy lifestyle and might even tempt me to rethink my two drink maximum rule for first dates," Stanger told PRNewswire.
She reportedly joined the brand to help in its day-to-day business operations. Using her marketing skills, Stanger noted that she cooks with sake, using her brand "to make tiramisu, and the sweet aftertaste from the sake worked just as well as the liqueur I usually use," she told D Magazine. The former Bravo star also posted a video on Instagram of her cooking Matzo ball soup, with an affiliate link to some of her favorite household items sold through Amazon.
Plotting her next million-dollar steps
After Patti Stanger left Bravo following eight seasons of "The Millionaire Matchmaker," it seemed the split was made permanent when she moved her talents to WE TV for "Million Dollar Matchmaker." However, the reality star hinted in 2019 that, if given the chance, she might consider returning to the network that made her a star. During an interview with Parade, Stanger revealed the idea of rebooting the original series to a "2.0 version of 'Millionaire Matchmaker.'" First things first, she had plans on international expansion. "My dream was always to take it around the world, and do it in other countries and then bring it back to the United States for a more improved version," Stanger explained. "Safe dating is my platform. So, who knows?" As Stanger summarized about her experience with Bravo, "I will never forget my time there, and I will never close the door."
In 2023, Stanger revealed that the door fully opened as she was returning to TV with "Patti Stanger: Millionaire Matchmaking" on the CW network instead of Bravo, with an expected launch date in 2024. "That's right lovelies ... I'm back," she posted on Instagram about the big news. Stanger thanked the network for giving her the opportunity and for her continued support from fans to get the matchmaker back on TV. She also signed with the Independent Artist Group for representation and reportedly, Stanger was working on another series based on her childhood growing up in New Jersey.
Her sultry scents took off
Patti Stanger entered the beauty industry in 2023 with her fragrance called Matchmaker in collaboration with the brand Eye of Love. The perfumes combined chemical pheromones with fragrances to help anyone attract what they desire. As Stanger declared on her Instagram, it's "the very first gender fluid pheromone fragrance ever." She further explained that there are scents for singles and couples alike, plus, her products are designed with the full spectrum of identities in mind."Even if you're married or single it doesn't matter, you still want someone to love you, touch you, taste you, feel you," she said in an explanatory video for Eye of Love. Stanger was also proud of the bottle design, which looks like a diamond.
In the same universe, the matchmaker also created multi-use massage candles, complete with a built-in spout to make it easier to pour. These moisturizing candles were so popular with fans that they sold out and Stanger advised that people should consider using them to spice up their love lives. "So get off the phone and get in the bedroom and have some fun," she posted on Instagram about her candles.
Patti Stanger's furry friends
Patti Stanger's love goes beyond humans as she is also a big animal lover. For example, "to get rid of depression, I swim with dolphins," she told Us Magazine. At home, she had two dogs, which she called her babies. "A puppy will change your life and bring you true love," she posted on National Puppy Day, while also tagging PETA in the post. The matchmaker has referenced the animal rights group in several of her social media posts. For example, she retweeted about Christine Quinn from "Selling Sunset" reportedly owning a tiger and Stanger asked, "does PETA know?" Stanger once posed with a tiger on Instagram but she assured fans there was no danger involved. She said the photo was "for those animal lovers like me I would never cage/captive an animal @peta nor would #bravo! This was CGI! But I have to say my fake tiger was still ferocious!"
In 2020, Stanger posted another photo on Instagram with her dogs named Rerun and Shreck, with one adorably trying to lick her face. She called the animals the two loves of her life but shared sad news that both had died. "May they fly high with the angels and #rip! Miss you babies," she wrote. This didn't deter her from admiring other pets, like when she praised President Joe Biden's German shepherd Major, who was the first rescue dog from an animal shelter to live in the White House.
She keeps an eye on famous couples
Even if she's not directly responsible for setting up two lovers, Patti Stanger certainly has experience with high net worth couples. Plus, with her Millionaire's Club dating service specializing in Los Angeles love, Stanger knows what it takes for a Hollywood romance. For example, she previously predicted that Kim Kardashian and Kanye "Ye" West would get married, especially with their shared love in fashion. "She's got her best friend — he likes to shop, he likes to be in the tabloids, they're like two besties," Stanger told RumorFix about the two celebrities. According to the matchmaker, "if her divorce [to Kris Humphries] isn't held up I really think they could end up together."
After one of the wealthiest men in the world Jeff Bezos officially separated from this ex-wife MacKenzie Bezos in 2019, he became one of the most high-profile and powerful bachelors available. According to Stanger, the Amazon founder wouldn't be single for long. "He's a catch. He's not a loser. It's not about the money ... He has a lot of charisma," Stanger told Page Six. Of course, Stanger also had an opinion on the buzziest celebrity couple of 2023, Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift. "I think she needed a guy who pursued her hard, no one has ever gone out of their way" for her like Kelce did, Stanger told Fox News. The matchmaker liked the couple and predicted they would become engaged soon after the end of the 2023-2024 NFL season.
Patti Stanger mixes food and drinks with love
While it's common for people to grab drinks together on a date, Patti Stanger recommended that going to a bar when single can also have its benefits. She explained to LA Mag, "tip the bartender. Lean in and say, 'Hey, is there a regular here that you know is single and that you think I would be great with?'" She explained that bartenders make excellent matchmakers in part because they are also like therapists.
Beyond just imbibing, Stanger still likes the idea of incorporating food into romance. Plus, in her opinion, few date ideas can beat one of the classics. "Coffee is cheap. Drinks are an audition. Lunch is an interview. Dinner means business ... the business of romance," she posted in X, (formerly Twitter). This can mean going on but Stanger also is a supporter of a night in cooking. She said fish is best and even easier to order sushi in to avoid any unwelcome smells. Then, for dessert, she liked shareable foods that can be easily fed to the other person, like strawberries or crème brûlée. Stanger loves to talk about food even outside of a romantic setting since gastronomy is one of her passions. "If I weren't a matchmaker, I'd be a chef," she told Us Magazine. That, plus a cozy spot in front of a TV is all she needs. "I don't drink. I don't smoke. My vices are Netflix," Stanger revealed on the "Tamron Hall Show."