Celebs Who Fell In Love With Their Bosses

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Workplace romances have been a thing for as long as employment has been a thing, and it is not uncommon to meet people who are or have been in a relationship with a co-worker. Less common are relationships between supervisors and those they supervise, at least in recent years as the world has become more attuned to the inherent power dynamics at play and the rampant sexual harassment that still plagues our culture (a 2019 study found that 38% of women and 14% of men have experienced sexual harassment at work).

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Despite the clear issues with such a scenario, dating one's boss is still a thing that happens quite frequently — although, because of those power dynamics, larger organizations often require these (and other) workplace romances to be reported to human resources. But the entertainment industry does not really follow the norms of most other industries, and in Hollywood, dating the boss is not nearly as taboo as it is elsewhere.

Film actors date their (sometimes taken) directors rather frequently, and we have also seen a fair number of TV stars falling for showrunners, musicians falling for record executives, and even journalists falling for heads of the network. For our list, we focused on boss-underling relationships that were substantial (versus, say, Kristen Stewart's kiss with her married director Rupert Sanders), and avoided celebrities whose relationships predated their work arrangement. That left us with a pretty hearty list of celebrities who fell in love with their bosses, and some of these people are even still together.

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Helena Bonham Carter started dating Tim Burton after he recruited her to play a chimpanzee

Tim Burton and Helena Bonham Carter were a show business power couple for many years, and it definitely seemed as though two oddballs had found their way to their perfect soulmate. Not only were Burton and Carter a great couple, but they also made great collaborators. It should come as no surprise, given that they first met on the set of the 2000 film, "Planet of the Apes," which Burton directed. "He said, 'Don't take this the wrong way, but you are the first person I thought of to play a chimpanzee,'" Carter recounted on "The Graham Norton Show" of her initial phone call with Burton. "I thought, he's never met me, but he's got me. Because he said, 'I've got this funny intuitive feeling ... that you like to cover up.' And I said, 'You're completely right.'"

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Asking a woman to play an ape might not work as a pickup tactic in most instances, so it's not something we advocate trying out at a bar. But for these two unconventional folks, romance blossomed once filming was complete (though they both had long-term partners while on set) in 2001. Burton and Carter had a son, Billy, in 2003, and their daughter Nell was born in 2007, but some of their most fascinating babies were of the film variety. Carter became somewhat of a muse for Burton, and the pair collaborated many times over the course of their 13-year romance, including for "Dark Shadows," "Big Fish," "Alice in Wonderland," and "Corpse Bride." Sadly, the couple split in 2014.

Mariah Carey fell for Tommy Mottola while making her debut album

With her golden vocals and that trademark whistle register, we have faith that Mariah Carey would have become famous no matter what route she took. It certainly could not have hurt, however, that she dated and then married her boss at Sony Music. Tommy Mottola became president of Sony in 1988 and chairman and CEO of Sony Music in 1993. He signed Carey to Columbia Records (a label owned by Sony) after hearing her demo tape in 1988.

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By 1991, the pair were an item, and, in 1993, they had an over-the-top $500,000 wedding at New York's St. Patrick's Cathedral. Carey was only 23, while Mottola was two decades older, and neither of them have fond memories of the marriage, which ended in 1998 after a separation the previous year.

Carey has on multiple occasions opened up about how Mottola controlled every aspect of her life during that time period, including in her 2020 memoir, "The Meaning of Mariah Carey." "You might want to picture a child bride," she said in a 2019 Cosmopolitan interview. "There was a conscious effort to keep me as this all-American, whatever that means, girl. It was very controlled. There was no freedom for me as a human being. It was almost like being a prisoner." In a "CBS Sunday Morning" interview, Carey said that even going out for a bite to eat with a friend created a fight in the marriage. Mottola — who has been married to singer Thalia since 2000 – has since acknowledged the inappropriateness of his romance with Carey.

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Jennifer Lawrence started dating her director Darren Aronofsky shortly after production wrapped

Jennifer Lawrence is a huge star, so naturally, we know a lot about her dating history. Lawrence has been married to Cooke Maroney, an art gallery director, since 2019, and together they share a son named Cy (born in 2022). Before Maroney, Lawrence had only a handful of big public relationships, but they were relatively significant. She dated "The Great" actor Nicholas Hoult from 2011 to 2014, with a brief split in the middle, and "Coldplay" lead singer Chris Martin from August 2014 to the following August, also with a split in there.

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A year after that, Lawrence began dating her boss — Darren Aronofsky, who wrote and directed the film "Mother!," in which Lawrence starred. The pair began dating in September 2016, after the end of shooting, and lasted for just over a year before calling it quits.

Like many of the relationships on our list, Lawrence and Aronofsky were not only boss and worker (since directors are at the top of the film hierarchy, even when a giant celebrity is in the film, and may as well be the boss) but there also existed a substantial age difference, further complicating dynamics. Lawrence and Aronofsky are 22 years apart in age, and sources reported that this generational gap played a role in their relationship's demise. This is not entirely surprising, since Aronofsky's son with actor Rachel Weisz was born in 2006 and is therefore closer in age to Lawrence than he is, but it is not like massive age differences are not a dime a dozen in Hollywood.

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Aaron Taylor-Johnson met his wife when he auditioned for a movie she was directing

Here is another instance of an actor dating their director, as well as another instance of a very large age disparity. Actor Aaron Taylor-Johnson met his now-wife Sam Taylor-Johnson when he auditioned for the film "Nowhere Boy" in 2008. Sam — who was married at the time — was directing the film and cast Aaron as John Lennon after his audition dazzled her. She got divorced that same year, and the couple made their red-carpet debut (and got engaged) in 2009. 

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"We were very professional through the entire film," Sam told Harper's Bazaar in 2019. "But everyone on set knew. And as soon as we finished, he told me he was going to marry me. We had never been on a date, or even kissed."

The chemistry may have been palpable, but on paper, things looked a bit weird. Aaron was still a teenager at the time (he was born in June 1990), while Sam was a divorced mom of two in her 40s. Though Sam's eldest daughter is only eight years younger than her hot hubby, Aaron stepped up to help raise both kids. The couple also have two other daughters, who they welcomed in 2010 and 2012. The Taylor-Johnsons married in 2012 and are still going strong, despite what Aaron has called the "intrusive" attention focused on their age gap.

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James Cameron and Linda Hamilton fell in love filming Terminator 2: Judgment Day (despite his being married)

James Cameron is an amazing director, but his reputation as a husband? Not great, historically. Cameron is on marriage number five, and though things seem to be good with his wife, Suzy Amis, his past marriages have shown that Cameron has a faithfulness problem. Amis is clearly aware of this, given that they started as an affair, but it is also possible that the famed director has changed his ways since marrying Amis in 2000. After all, Cameron and Amis have lasted longer than all of his other marriages combined. Not much is known about Cameron's first wife Sharon Williams, to whom he was wed from 1978 to 1984, but his second wife was producer Gale Anne Hurd, who was a frequent collaborator of his before and during (and once after) their four-year marriage.

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After his marriage to Hurd ended in 1989, Cameron moved on with Kathryn Bigelow, who is now a fellow Oscar-winning director. They were only married from 1989 to 1991, and they split around the time Cameron started up a rumored affair with Linda Hamilton while filming "Terminator 2: Judgment Day" (he had previously also directed her in 1984's "The Terminator).

Cameron moved in with his leading lady the same year he split from Bigelow, had a kid with her two years later, and then left her for Amis, who appeared in a small role in "Titanic." He then went back to Hamilton and married her (all in 1997), before leaving eight months later — again for Amis. Hamilton famously received $50 million in the 1999 divorce.

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Kate Capshaw fell for Steven Spielberg, the director responsible for her big break

By now, we have firmly established that straight male directors tend to fall in love with their leading ladies, and vice versa, but that does not mean we are going to stop giving you examples. This is a cool one, though, since Steven Spielberg and Kate Capshaw are still together today, more than three decades and enough children to form a water polo team later.

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Both stars were previously married before they got together, with each of them bringing one child into the world with their former partners (and Capshaw's daughter is actor Jessica Capshaw, who played Dr. Arizona Robbins on "Grey's Anatomy"). Their blended family has become one of those iconic Hollywood clans we can't get enough of, even though most of the kids live private lives.

Spielberg and Capshaw first met when he hired her to appear as Willie Scott opposite Harrison Ford's Indiana Jones in the 1984 film "Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom," which he directed. This was Capshaw's big break in Hollywood, but she did not start dating her boss until years later. It was after Spielberg divorced actor Amy Irving in 1989 (they married in 1985) that he and Capshaw got together. They moved in together that same year and married two years after that. In addition to their two children from previous relationships, the couple has five other kids — three biological and two adopted. While Capshaw has not appeared on screen since 2002, a multiple of their kids work in the entertainment industry, including actor Sawyer and director/actor Destry.

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Musician Alesha Dixon once dated the head of her record label

Alesha Dixon is not well known in the United States, but she is a big celebrity in Britain, where she is known for her singing as well as other ventures like appearing on "Strictly Come Dancing" and being a judge on "Britain's Got Talent." She is also known for dating her boss.

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Dixon was first married in 2005, but her wedded bliss was cut short when her husband, rapper MC Harvey, cheated on her the following year. There are rumors that Dixon got married again in 2017, this time to dancer Azuka Ononye, but she has maintained that the two are not legally married. The couple was together for 18 years and welcomed two children, Azura and Anaya. Sadly, Dixon and Ononye split in November 2024.

But what we really want to talk about is that period in between Dixon's divorce and her relationship with Ononye, where she spent a short period dating the head of her record label. It all happened in 2008, when Dixon was working on her album "The Alesha Show," which went platinum in the U.K. Ed Howard was at the time the head of Asylum Records, which released the album, and the relationship became public when the pair was spotted around London getting all lovey-dovey. Since the relationship was so private, we have no idea when Dixon ended things with Howard but we do know she first met Ononye in 2006, so he was waiting in the wings.

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Leslie Mann met husband Judd Apatow at her audition for The Cable Guy, which he co-produced

In a place like Hollywood, where marriages sometimes last not even a year, a couple who lasts for decades is a huge deal. So, for a celebrity couple to last a quarter of a century is something that should be celebrated, and we are here to toast Judd Apatow and Leslie Mann on that achievement. They have become a fantastic duo over the years, but when the couple first began, Apatow was technically in an authoritative role over Mann. Their first-time coming face to face was at Mann's audition for "The Cable Guy," a film that Apatow helped produce.

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Mann scored the role in "The Cable Guy," and she also deeply impressed Apatow, who has said it was love at first sight for him. He told Elle that he said, "There goes the future Mrs. Apatow," as Mann left the room. "I had a soul connection instantly. I meant it. That's why I remember it," he said.

Mann and Apatow began dating in 1996, after she was cast in the film, and they got married the following year. They now have two daughters — "Euphoria" star Maude and Iris — and have become one of our favorite funny couples. They have also collaborated again many times, with Apatow casting Mann in films such as "Knocked Up," "Drillbit Taylor," "This Is 40," and "Funny People."

Michelle Williams married Thomas Kail, who co-developed a miniseries she starred in

Michelle Williams is notoriously private about her personal life, but you cannot be a world-class, award-nominated actor and not court a certain level of interest. When it comes to Williams, people have been perhaps even more invested in her happiness since the death of Heath Ledger, the father of her daughter Matilda, in 2008. Though they were not a couple at the time of his death, plenty of us shipped them and had hopes they would find their way back to one another. Though she was obviously devastated, Williams forged on after Ledger's death, dating director Spike Jonze that same year. "I never gave up on love," Williams told Vanity Fair in 2018. "I always say to Matilda, 'Your dad loved me before anybody thought I was talented, or pretty, or had nice clothes.'"

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Williams dated a number of men after Jonze but no one that stuck around for too long. She walked down the aisle with musician Phil Elverum in 2018, only announcing the marriage after-the-fact, but the pair split the following year.

There was a happy ending for Williams after all, however, when she fell for current husband Thomas Kail, who she met during the making of her miniseries "Fosse/Verdon." As co-creator of the miniseries, Kail was technically in a boss role, but the couple did not start a romance until after filming. They got married in secret in early 2020 – we told you she was private! — and had a child in June 2020. They had a second kid in November 2022.

Helen Mirren and husband Taylor Hackford have the film White Nights to thank for their love story

Dame Helen Mirren is an acting icon who can do absolutely no wrong in our book. The legend shines in everything she does, whether it is appearing as no-nonsense Detective Chief Inspector Jane Tennison in the "Prime Suspect" series or hilariously serving as the unexpected narrator for the "Barbie" movie. We trust Mirren's creative choices and, given her long and seemingly happy marriage, also trust her personal ones. Mirren has been in a relationship with director Taylor Hackford since 1986 and married to him since 1997. Hackford was Mirren's boss when they met, but the more shocking part is that Mirren really did not like Hackford at first.

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The pair met in 1985, when Mirren appeared in "White Nights," a film that Hackford directed. Mirren initially disliked Hackford because he kept her waiting to audition and she was furious. Once they were on set, however, things quickly developed into romance. The Oscar winners dated for over a decade before walking down the aisle, although the wedding was more of a formality than anything. "We got married in the end because we realized that we were going to be together forever," Mirren told AARP. "We got married, ultimately, for legal reasons more than anything else. Estate planning and other complicated things like that." When they wed, Mirren — who told AARP magazine that one reason she fell in love with Hackford was because he was a doting father — became stepmother to Hackford's two adult sons, one of whom died in 2022.

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Casey Wilson and David Caspe met when she starred on his show

"Happy Endings" is an underrated gem of a show and though the whole ensemble was stellar, actor Casey Wilson was the standout. Her character, Penny Hartz, was notoriously bad at love, and though Penny may not have found her forever person on the series, Wilson sure did. She met the show's creator David Caspe when she auditioned for the part, and they started dating a year after that in July 2011. "I liked him the whole time because he is the most kind, genuine and funny person I have ever met," Wilson told The New York Times. "But David felt it was not a good idea to get involved with the actresses."

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That rule clearly went out the window, which Wilson has attributed to Caspe's discomfort once she started dating other people. "I actually had to go to that darker place of, 'I don't think this is going to happen.' I started dating other people just to get out there. I think it bothered him, though he said it didn't," she said in a Glamour interview.

Wilson and Caspe walked down the aisle in 2014, and they have continued to work together in the years since. In fact, Caspe based the sitcom "Marry Me" on their actual relationship, and then cast his wife in the lead role. That series was also cancelled before its time, but Wilson has subsequently appeared on other Caspe-created series, such as "Black Monday" and "Champaign ILL." The couple have three children together and are still going strong.

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Frances McDormand fell for Joel Coen on the set of the Coen Brothers film, Blood Simple

Frances McDormand has been acting for over four decades and has established herself as one of the leading actors of her generation. She has been on fire in recent years — winning Oscars in 2017 and 2020 for her work in "Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri" and "Nomadland" — and is one of only seven actors to have three or more acting Academy Awards (her first Oscar was for "Fargo"). Typically, stars with that level of acclaim have a strong media presence, but McDormand is very much not like her peers in that regard. The actor does not court attention, doesn't do press junkets, and for years following "Fargo" would not give interviews. Heck, she won't even pose for selfies with fans.

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While she is unconventional and sometimes even lovably rebellious, there is one way that McDormand has aligned with the Hollywood norm: falling in love with her boss. McDormand met her husband Joel Coen on her first movie, "Blood Simple," which was also his first film. She auditioned in 1983, and by the time the film came out in late 1984, they were already married. "It was a revelation that I could have a lover who I could also work with and I wasn't intimidated by the person," she told The New York Times. Coen and his brother, Ethan — who are often referred to as the "Coen Brothers" — have since cast McDormand in many of their films, including the aforementioned "Fargo," as well as "Raising Arizona," "Burn After Reading," and more.

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Diana Ross had a secret child with Motown head Berry Gordy

A documentary about Diana Ross's life was released in 2019, but "Diana Ross: Her Life, Love, and Legacy" largely focused on the singer's memorable 1983 free concert in Central Park during a big storm. There are way too many juicy details about Ross's life for us to not get another film (maybe a biopic starring daughter Tracee Ellis Ross?) One of the most interesting parts of Ross's story is her love affair with Motown head honcho Berry Gordy, which resulted in a child that for years was presumed to be parented by another man. Not only was Gordy Ross's label head, but he also once employed her as a secretary (a job he fired her from because she was reportedly awful at it).

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Gordy and Ross first met she was a high school student seeking a recording contract alongside her bandmates in The Primettes. Once the girls graduated, Berry signed them, renamed them The Supremes, and helped launch them to worldwide success. The pair were romantically involved for the latter half of the 1960s, but broke up when their relationship got in the way of the work. Ross and Gordy had already broken up when they conceived their daughter, Rhonda, in late 1970 in a one-off night of passion. Since Ross married Robert Ellis Silberstein early in her pregnancy, it was assumed he was the father for the earliest years of her life.

Julie Chen Moonves worked for CBS when she began dating the married head of the network, Les Moonves

Forget dating a showrunner or director, why not go all of the way to the top and snag the head of a major network? That is what "Big Brother" host Julie Chen Moonves did when she started up with her husband Les Moonves, who was at the time the head of CBS. Chen Moonves had established herself as a journalist at the network and was a newsreader on "The Early Show" when she was tapped to host "Big Brother."

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Their romance began while Moonves was still married to his first wife, with whom he has three kids, and details about its origins are scarce. Moonves and Chen Moonves were married in 2004, mere weeks after Moonves's divorce, and had a child, Charlie, in 2009. It is hard to know whether Chen Moonves's career would have been better or worse off had she not married the man in charge.

Chen Moonves only later started using her married name — something she unexpectedly did after allegations of sexual harassment against her husband years after their marriage. "When I married my husband, I chose not to take the name because I thought it could be seen as an unfair advantage," she told Deadline in 2022. "It was a powerful, popular name to have. And I had made my own career prior to knowing him. So, I wanted to keep that." Moonves stepped down from his role at CBS in 2018 amidst the allegations of sexual harassment and misconduct, which he has denied.

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Ingrid Bergman's reputation suffered after an affair with her married director (and eventual husband) Roberto Rossellini

A lot of the relationships on our list began as extramarital affairs, but cheating is not uncommon in Hollywood nor outside of it, and affairs are no longer stigmatized the way they once were. Sure, people don't love a cheater, but the scarlet letter once worn by those who cheated fades relatively quickly in the digital age. Once upon a time, stars were marked for life when they were perceived to have broken up a marriage, particularly women. Ingrid Bergman's reputation never fully rebounded after she had an affair with her married director Roberto Rossellini — not even after they married or after she kept turning out Oscar-winning performances.

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Bergman was a very popular star prior to her affair with Rossellini, with iconic roles in films like "Casablanca" and "Joan of Arc." She fell in love with Rossellini while making the 1950 film "Stromboli," and the couple both left their spouses to be together. The resulting scandal led to hate mail, public shaming on the floor of the U.S. senate, and even boycotts of Bergman's films.

It wasn't just the affair that made people lose their minds, but also the baby the couple had out of wedlock. The couple married a few months after their son was born in 1950, and they had two more kids before their 1957 divorce (Bergman also had a child from her first marriage). Years later, it was revealed that Bergman had a history of cheating, and that she had cheated on her first husband with co-star Gregory Peck.

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Like her mother before her, Isabella Rossellini fell for her married director

Ingrid Bergman and Roberto Rossellini had three children, and one of them went on to find stardom in her own right. A nepo baby before the world knew what that term meant, Isabella Rossellini first found fame as a model, most notably for Lancôme, with whom she signed an exclusive deal in 1982 that made here the best paid model of the time. She also acted, and many people consider the 1986 film "Blue Velvet" to be the vehicle that first properly exposed her skill in that area. And not only did this film help Rossellini's career, but it also introduced her to one of her great loves, David Lynch. By the time of "Blue Velvet," Rossellini had already been married two times — once to director Martin Scorsese and once to Jonathan Wiedemann.

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When she divorced Scorsese in 1982, after three years of marriage, Rossellini was pregnant with Wiedemann's child — eerily similar to her parents' story. Things ended with Wiedemann around the time Rosselini met and fell for Lynch, who directed "Blue Velvet" and offered her a part in the film after they met at a dinner party (and Helen Mirren had turned it down). Lynch was married to his second wife, Mary Fisk, at the time, and his romance with Rossellini was the catalyst for their divorce (again, very similar to her parents' origins). She and Lynch broke up after six years, after which Rossellini adopted a son and became engaged to actor Gary Oldman.

Sparks flew when Christine Taylor auditioned for a pilot Ben Stiller was directing

Ben Stiller is from a Hollywood family, but his road to success was not an overnight one. Though he had some early luck in the theater, he started his television career in bit parts in shows like "Kate & Allie" and "Miami Vice," and then had a disastrous four-episode stint on "Saturday Night Live." A few years later, he got his own sketch show, "The Ben Stiller Show," but that too was not a successful endeavor. This is all to say that Stiller spent some time early in his career trying things, failing, and then trying other things. This included directing and producing content, both of which he still does today, just on a much larger scale. It was through one of his directorial undertakings that Stiller met his wife, all the way back in 1999.

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Stiller has been married to actor Christine Taylor since 2000, after they met when she auditioned for a TV pilot he directed for a show called "Heat Vision and Jack." While the show never got picked up, the couple quickly hit it off and began dating, going public at the 1999 MTV Movie Awards. They appeared together in "Zoolander" a year after getting married, and Taylor also had small roles in Stiller's films "Dodgeball: A True Underdog Story" and "Tropic Thunder." The couple shares two children, Ella and Quinlin, and were on a solid track until their 2017 separation. Stiller and Taylor got back together during the COVID-19 pandemic, during which they moved back in together.

Harry Styles romanced Olivia Wilde after she cast him in her film, Don't Worry Darling

In case you thought it was only male directors who fell in love with their female actors, we would like to introduce the case of Olivia Wilde and Harry Styles' relationship (even though you would have to have been living under a rock to have missed this one). Wilde and Styles met when the filmmaker was looking for a replacement for actor Shia LeBeouf, who was at one point attached to star in her project "Don't Worry Darling." As the director of the film, Wilde obviously had a large say in who was cast, and she fell for Styles' charisma and charm. And it turns out she did not just fall for the international pop star as an actor, because the two quickly became one of the most talked about couples in the world.

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Wilde and then-fiancé Jason Sudeikis announced their split in November 2020, but Wilde maintains that they broke up earlier in the year, while Sudeikis told GQ they only split in November. When Wilde and Styles were photographed holding hands in January 2021, it further complicated the timeline and caused tongues to wag. Because Styles was cast in her film in September, some have speculated that Wilde may have ended things to be with Styles, but she denied this in a 2022 Vanity Fair interview. Though we had plenty of evidence by way of paparazzi photos, Wilde and Styles made the choice not to speak about their relationship. They reportedly broke up in November 2022.

Rose McGowan was engaged to her Planet Terror director Robert Rodriguez

We can think of no better way to end our list than with another case of a director-actor love story, since these are so prevalent in Hollywood and are typically quite fascinating. When it comes to Rose McGowan's last few years, focus has been squarely on her activist work and her role in taking down Harvey Weinstein, as it should have been. But long before McGowan became a sexual assault advocate with no f's to give and a tendency to unleash on X, formerly known as Twitter, she was a working Hollywood actor with a loyal following of fans. Though she has not acted in a handful of years, McGowan was always a scene stealer, be it in films like "Scream" and "Jawbreaker," or as witch sister Paige Matthews on "Charmed." She especially shone in darker roles, like the one she had in the film "Planet Terror."

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"Planet Terror" is a 2007 film in which McGowan plays a go-go dancer who survives a zombie apocalypse and has a machine-gun for a leg. It was released as part of "Grindhouse," a double feature that also included the film, "Death Proof," directed by Quentin Tarantino. The "Planet Terror" portion of the "Grindhouse" was written and directed by Robert Rodriguez, who McGowan met when she was cast in the film. Rodriguez only split from his wife in April 2006, and there were rumors in the media that McGowan was the reason for the marriage's demise. McGowan and Rodriguez were together from 2006 to 2009, and they were even engaged before things went downhill.

Shania Twain married (and then divorced) her producer, Mutt Lange

When Shania Twain recorded her second album, 1995's "The Woman in Me," she worked under the tutelage of Robert "Mutt" Lange, a top producer who worked with artists such as Def Leppard and AC/DC. Not only did the experience spark a successful musical collaboration, it also led the two into a romance. They married in December 1993, just a few months after they first started working together. Their next collaboration, the 1997 mega-smash "Come On Over," sold 40 million copies and spawned numerous hit singles.

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Back in 1996, Twain spoke with Interview magazine about the all-encompassing experience of being married to her record producer. "We sit around and write songs during commercial breaks while we're watching TV, or while we're going for groceries," she explained. "It's almost like extended conversation for us. If there's nothing to talk about, we make something up, and that's what songwriting's all about."

This music-industry power couple ended their marriage in 2008 when Twain discovered that he was cheating on her with her best friend and former personal assistant, Marie-Anne Thiébaud. In one of the stranger scenarios ever, Lange went on to wed Thiébaud, while Twain commiserated with Thiébaud's husband, Frédéric Thiébaud, the other wronged party in their spouses' affair. Twain and Thiébaud wound up tying the knot a few years later, becoming husband and wife in 2011.

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Marianne Faithfull had a long relationship with her 10-years-younger manager/producer, François Ravard

Marianne Faithfull was famously the girlfriend of Rolling Stones singer Mick Jagger during the 1960s, scoring a hit single with her cover of The Rolling Stones' "As Tears Go By." Faithfull experienced a career renaissance with her 1979 album "Broken English," which laid the template for her next few decades as a successful singer.

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During the early part of the 1990s, Faithfull entered into a romance with François Ravard, who not only produced her records, but was also her manager — and 10 years her junior. They were a couple for 15 years until splitting up in 2009. But while their relationship as lovers may have ended, their professional bond remained solid, as he stayed on as her manager.

While she once described Ravard as her soulmate, revealing their relationship was the longest she'd ever been in, she also admitted she was heartbroken when it ended. "I'm all right but I have had a bit of an adventure — my relationship broke up," she told the Daily Mail in 2009. "I felt very betrayed and lonely. I am much, much better now, but it is not good for your self-esteem." Faithfull tragically died in January 2025 at the age of 78.

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Pamela Anderson romanced magician Hans Klok while she appeared in his Vegas magic show

In 2007, Pamela Anderson took a bit of a left turn career-wise when the former "Baywatch" star headed to Las Vegas to appear in "The Beauty of Magic," a stage show at the Planet Hollywood Resort & Casino. Anderson was stepping into a whole new role, serving as magician's assistant to Hans Klok, star of the show. "Being Canadian and a gymnast and an acrobat — I always wanted to join Cirque du Soleil — I love it more than anything," she wrote about the experience on her website, as reported by CBS News.

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While helping Klok present his mind-bending illusions, Cupid's arrow struck. During an appearance on "The Late, Late Show," Anderson told host Craig Ferguson that she and the Dutch magician were making magic behind the scenes as well as onstage. When he asked whether she was dating Klok (via TMZ), she confirmed that she was. "There's a lot of love backstage," she said. "It's very physical, it's very loving." By all accounts, her romance with Klok wrapped up around the same time as the end of her stint as his assistant.

Robert Downey Jr. met his wife when she was producing one of his movies

"Gothika" is not among Robert Downey Jr.'s most memorable movies, yet it will always have a special place in his heart. It was while making that film that he fell in love with its producer, Susan Levin, the vice president of production at Silver Pictures, which produced the film. To say it wasn't love at first sight is an understatement; as she told The Hollywood Reporter, she and Downey were joined by the film's director and co-star Halle Berry for lunch to discuss the film, at which point Downey pulled out a packet of oatmeal as everyone else ordered Japanese food. "I mean, he was interesting but weird," she recalled.

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Eventually they began dating, but Downey's well-documented issues with substance abuse loomed in the background. He proposed, and she accepted — but with one key condition attached: he had to quit doing drugs, for good. If he relapsed, she was out. "Addiction was so foreign to me. I was incredibly ignorant of the hold it had on people," she admitted. "Thank God for that," Downey quipped. "If she knew the depths of my depravity, we would not be sitting here."

They got engaged in 2003, after just a few months of dating, and waited until 2005 to tie the knot. These days, the Downeys are the parents of three – two of theirs and one from Downey's previous marriage — and partners in their production company, Team Downey.

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If you or anyone you know needs help with addiction issues, help is available. Visit the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration website or contact SAMHSA's National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).

Milla Jovovich dated her Fifth Element director Luc Besson

Former model Milla Jovovich's acting career was heating up when she was cast in "The Fifth Element," a trippy 1997 sci-fi flick from French director Luc Besson. While filming progressed, she and the director became romantically involved. The got married in 1997, in Las Vegas; the bride was in her early 20s, while the groom was 38. "He didn't ask me," she said of popping the question in an interview with Femme. "I asked him. It was funny."

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That marriage, unfortunately, did not last. They broke up shortly after filming completed on 1999's "The Messenger: The Story Of Joan Of Arc," which he directed and in which she starred as the legendary French warrior. While there were rumors that the arduous production led to the split — Besson reportedly insisted she do all her own stunts — but Jovovich insisted that wasn't the case. "The movie did not break us up. Luc and my personal life never got entangled in our professional life. If we could make movies 365 days a year, we would still be together," she told Glasgow's Daily Record. "We did get married. But we're not together anymore in that sort of particular context," she added. "We're best friends, apart from being together or not. He loves me, I love him."

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Milla Jovovich also became involved with director Paul W.S. Anderson

It wasn't long after divorcing Luc Besson that Milla Jovovich moved on — once again, with a director who hired her to star in his movie. That director was Paul W.S. Anderson, who cast Jovovich as zombie-slaying heroine Alice in the video game-inspired 2002 movie, "Resident Evil."

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The actor and the director brought their romance public when they appeared together as a couple at the film's premiere. They got engaged the following year, and welcomed their first child in 2007, a daughter, and got married in 2009. They've been together ever since, and have joined forces on numerous "Resident Evil" sequels. They subsequently expanded their family with the arrival of a second daughter.

Judging by a 2025 Instagram post that Jovovich issued in honor of her husband's 60th birthday, their love continues to burn brightly. "I am so grateful for you and our relationship over the last 20+ years," she wrote in the caption. "To say how lucky I am to be your wife, to have our children together, to build the life we've created together is an understatement ... You've alway[s], always thought of your family first, you live for me and your girls."

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Céline Dion married René Angélil, who's been her manager since she was 12

Céline Dion was blessed with the voice of an angel. As a child in the Canadian province of Quebec, Dion wrote her first song at the age of 12. She recorded a demo, which wound up in the hands of talent manager René Angélil. He immediately recognized her talent and became her manager. In fact, Angélil was so convinced the youngster was destined for stardom, he placed a mortgage on his house in order to raise the money to record her first album.

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As she grew from child to woman, love blossomed between the singer and her manager when she was 19, despite him being 26 years older than her. As her stardom on the rise, they wed in 1994. ​​"We kind of kept it cool because of my career," Dion told People of the years they kept their romance under wraps. "I was living that love secretly ... When I was at the age to be able to say to people, it was like bang! Love! Love always wins."

They started a family, welcoming son René-Charles, and twins Nelson and Eddy. While there were certainly things people didn't know about Dion and Angélil's marriage, that love endured until Angélil lost a lengthy battle with cancer in 2016. In 2025, she celebrated what would have been her late husband's 83rd birthday with a touching tribute via Instagram. "Today is your birthday, but the date doesn't matter because there isn't a day that we aren't celebrating life with you," she wrote. "You are a part of us every day in the memories we cherish."

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Judy Garland married Vincente Minnelli after he directed her in a classic movie musical

Judy Garland rocketed to fame as a teenager, courtesy of "The Wizard of Oz." While starring in a subsequent movie musical, 1940's "Strike Up the Band," she worked with director Vincente Minnelli. At the time, Garland was married to songwriter David Rose, her first husband. Four years later, Minnelli directed Garland in "Meet Me in St. Louis." By then, Garland's marriage was on the rocks, and the relationship between actor and director shifted to romance. She divorced Rose in 1944, and, despite an age gap of nearly two decades, married Minnelli the following year. In 1946, they welcomed a daughter, future superstar Liza Minnelli.

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Ultimately, it wasn't the age difference that eroded their relationship, but Garland's mercurial moods. "If I'd loved Judy less, I could have been dispassionate enough to laugh her out of the moods," Minnelli said, via the biography "Vincente Minnelli: Hollywood's Dark Dreamer," as excerpted in People. "Sympathy that came too readily just didn't seem to help."

They divorced in 1951. Unfortunately, after that, Garland's love life continued to be so sad, going on to marry three more times before her death in 1969 at age 47 of an accidental overdose.

Gwyneth Paltrow met husband Brad Falchuk while guest-starring on Glee, which he co-created

Gwyneth Paltrow was in the midst of a thriving movie career when she became one of the many A-listers to guest star on TV mega-hit "Glee." Paltrow appeared as substitute teacher Holly Holliday during the series' second season. That was when she first encountered one of the show's co-creator, Brad Falchuk. At the time, both were married — Paltrow to Coldplay frontman Chris Martin, Falchuk to producer Suzanne Bukinik.

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A few years later, Paltrow and Martin had consciously uncoupled, while Falchuk also got divorced. The two reportedly began dating in 2014, and took their relationship public the following year when they showed up to Robert Downey Jr.'s 50th birthday party as a couple. They finally tied the knot in 2018, in a ceremony in the Hamptons attended by such celebs as Jerry Seinfeld, Cameron Diaz, and Steven Spielberg.

At first, their marriage was somewhat unconventional, given that they lived separately until moving in together about a year after the nuptials. "For a while, I thought, I don't know if I'd ever do it again," Paltrow told Marie Claire of her hesitation to tie the knot a second time. "I have my kids — what's the point? And then I met this incredible man, who made me think, no, this person is worth making this commitment to. I'm very much the marrying kind."

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Emmy Rossum met husband Sam Esmail when she starred in his first film, Comet

Emmy Rossum was gaining popularity via her role in TV hit "Shameless" when she was hired by writer-director Sam Esmail to star in his directorial debut, the 2014 feature film, "Comet." According to Rossum, they were instantly attracted to each other. "I just thought he was one of the more unique, kind, creative, brilliant people I'd ever met. Just somebody that I always wanted to be around," Rossum said of Esmail in an interview with Vogue. By the time the "Comet" premiere rolled around, the two were officially a couple.

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After two years of dating, Rossum and Esmail got engaged. They married in 2017 (Rossum had been married before, her brief 18-month marriage to music exec Justin Siegel had ended in divorce in 2010). A few years later, in 2021, reports emerged that they secretly welcomed their first child, a baby girl. Their family further expanded with a son, born in 2023. Esmail — who went on to create the hit TV series "Mr. Robot" — worked with his wife for the TV miniseries, "Angelyne," in which he was executive producer, while Rossum starred.

Due to their respective careers, they've become experts at remaining connected when not physically together. "We are both equally committed to our art, as we always have been, and to each other," Rossum told Extra. "We text multiple times a day, all day long, send little videos back and forth on set, try to share as much of our lives as we can so we don't feel that disconnect."

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