RHONY: Who Has Luann De Lesseps Dated Since Her Divorce From Tom D'Agostino?

Luann de Lesseps has had some rocky relationships over the years, and viewers have closely watched them unravel on "The Real Housewives of New York City." Fans of the cabaret star are well-aware that she's been married twice. Luann's first marriage to Count Alexandre de Lesseps ended in 2009. The second time around, Luann said "I do" to CEO Tom D'Agostino. The couple tied the knot on December 31, 2016, but announced their divorce seven months later.

As noted by People, the ladies of "RHONY" would frequently gossip about D'Agostino's alleged infidelity. In a Season 9 episode, Ramona Singer spilled some details about his messy behavior with another woman. While Luann would shut down rumors that her then-husband was unfaithful, she eventually stopped giving him the benefit of the doubt. In the Season 9 reunion, Luann shared, "It was the weekend before the reunion [aired], basically. Tom went out and he called up an old girlfriend and they met up with a group of people. And I didn't know about it — I found out about it the next day in the press. That for me was like, the final straw. I was like, 'I can't do this anymore.'"

At this point, Luann de Lesseps has moved on from her bumpy relationship with D'Agostino. So, who has she dated since her divorce?

In November 2020, Luann de Lesseps announced that she was dating Hamptons-based personal trainer, Garth Wakeford, per People. However, the relationship didn't last long. In a May 2021 Access Hollywood interview, de Lesseps revealed they had called it quits. She said, "I am dating. Garth and I had a great relationship during COVID. It was a COVID sizzle, and then it fizzled — and that's okay. We've moved on, and I'm dating. I met somebody in Mexico, so I'm seeing him once in a while."

So, what's the scoop on de Lesseps' former beau from Mexico? Well, an insider told People she hit it off with NFL player Radamez Rubio while vacationing. The insider said, "Lu is very happy and just having a blast spending time with him and taking him to all her favorite spots now that she's vaccinated and everything is open again in New York City and Hamptons." While flames sparked between Rubio and de Lesseps, he didn't end up being the one.

In June 2022, Luann de Lesseps confirmed she was back on the dating scene. In an interview with Access Hollywood, she teased that she's not exclusive. Then, she added, "I'm having fun. But, you know, I'm a hopeless romantic, so I always say three times the charm." Noting that she's not involved with anyone too seriously, "The Real Housewives" star seemed content to be having some lighthearted fun.

As for the aftermath of her relationship with Tom D'Agostino, de Lesseps has no hard feelings. Amid his engagement to Danielle Rollins, the countess told Page Six, "I've moved on and I only wish Tom the best." Yet she added, "There's still a part of me that wishes it worked out. I'd still have my penthouse, I'd have a place in Palm Beach [Florida]. And maybe I could have avoided a lot of problems." 

But it seems like de Lesseps is still holding out for her one true love, and she knows what she wants, too. She explained, "I'm looking for somebody who's likeminded, who I can travel with, who has my back, who I can trust, who's handsome. And somebody who adds to my life and doesn't take away from my life."